I feared for his life near constantly while he was inside, but I really think I only feared for his existence once after he was out and in the NICU
I may have answered what's behind space with "space, the final frontier"
There's this link going around of 10 things not to say to preemie parents and I've got to say, these generally don't bother me. I guess I credit most people with good intentions. When you congratulate us on our savings that he can stay in small clothes longer, you don't mean anything bad by this, just commenting. And recognizing that he's just a part of existence.
I love Chiron's face when his brother cries:
Trajan is a goober and I love him immensely:
And Chiron has giant eyes: